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ITS IMPORTANT FOR SURVIVAL TO GIVE APPROPRIATE ANSWER TO THOSE PEOPLE WHO PUSH YOU BACK....... THEY ARE NOT GOOD SOULS ON EARTH SO NO NEED TO THINK ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS WHEN YOU FIGHT BACK.........OTHERWISE THEY WILL CRUSH YOU FROM YOUR POSITION IN DAYS...... AFTER GETTING PROPER ANSWER THEY WILL LEAVE YOU & WILL MAKE FOCUS ON SOME ONE ELSE..... GOOD LUCK ATLEAST YOU ARE NO MORE THEIR VICTOM....
When one allows space for others views and starts absorbing all views without validating then this syndrome of getting cornered starts which gets into reaction of push back.
Therefore validate the opinions before taking it seriously.
Every professional goes through this phase at some point in his/her lifetime. InnAllaha Ma' as' sabireen (Verily, Allah is with the patient). Its always preferable to be patient and further observe the behaviour of the unpleasant people who try to push us back. But if there is no change in their behaviour or when the time comes to confront them and explode, then we must not stop ourselves. Such people are not only troublesome for us but they are a curse for future employees/generations as well. If we remain silent for a longer time, they will start believing that they are right so it is our moral responsibility to teach them a lesson when the right time comes. They will anyways hate us forever after we have exploded on and confronted them, so we should tackle them in such a way that they will never repeat such actions with anyone. If we just shout at them or boycott them, they might focus their attention towards someone else which does not solve the problem. Its just like pushing our problem over someone else. Such people must be humiliated and taught a life long lesson so that they think a thousand times before demoralising someone.
For the second part of your question, I believe that we should still teach such people a lesson even if we are considered mean ones. By humiliating such people, we are solving the problems of others around us as well who might be facing the same. Infact, the existence of such fools should not demoralize us. It should rather make us stronger and better professionals...
Self-defence is a sacred right, and it should be done proactively rather than reactively. Tolerating wrong doings against yourself more than you should has definitely the effect of making you steam with anger. Do not let this happen. Defend yourself the minute you're attaccked. Rather, show others that you're no weakling, and no body can encroach on your rights. Don't get me wrong. This does not mean you have to be aggressive yourself. Otherwise, you become like them. Instead, you should not let people tread all over you until you explode. Defend yourself by becoming unpushable right from the very beginning.
This happen because many people don't like each other
and they don't like to see someone success specially if they are losers
fight and walk in your way don't look toward them and you will reach
search for other who can share you with success and can help you
You don't get successful and happier in life without making few enemies.
i agree with shagufta zafar
Fighting back is always good but do not explode on people. Let your work do the talking. They do not deserve to be given any thought from your valuable time.
There are such noise creators exist in almost every organization..Usually it happens when other people have pesonal agendas to solve, or doesn't understand what we do (may be due to lack of clarity in our proposals/solutions). It happens with everyone at certain stage of career, we just need to keep doing right things, and explain to people why and how our proposed solution/idea is good and is aligned with company's goals. As long as we are working towards the company's strategic goals we shouldn't need to worry about what others think... Usually it happens when we are new in a particular role, but with the experience we will also master in dealing with such issues..
Why are you using these expressions "fight back" ?? and "explode": ? This sounds horrible !!If they push you, push back .. and do it smartly and professionally There is no fighting here and no exploding please !!
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TO FIGHT BACK IS THE BASIC INSTINCT OF ANY LIVING,,,,,,,,, DO NOT ALLOW SOMEONE TO PENETRATE YOUR FREEDOM & DIGNITY BCOZ IF YOU WILL NOT FIGHT FOR YOURSELF , FROM WHOM YOU ARE EXPECTING ?
