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These privileges are basically a triangle, where you can only have a straight line passing through two of them. If you can devise a formula to draw a three-dimensional line passing through all of them, you sure can conquer the domestics.
My answer to my own question could be as follows:-
Being blessed with two kids (both sons) after nine years of marital life, I had seen all the three shades, I talked about in my question. Love and happiness, we (me and my wife) cherished till we were upgraded to the status of parents. Kids arrival particularly conqured the three privilages. However, upbringing the kids is the toughest part which literary vanquished both love and happiness for some time. We became tired to drained out to robots and finally to zombies. Why, because of the misery that both of my kids do not sleep at all at night and one of us have to perform duty to tend and care them for their needs and activities till dawn and if luck favors, both sleep after dawn break otherwise, one has to continue till both fell asleep.
In short I agree that mostly one has to choose between the two. I myself had at present agreed mostly to' love' and' kids'. While keeping 'kids' as constant, keep' lov'e and 'hapiness' as variable and keep on shifting them from time to time. And yes there have been number of festive occasion during which I had witnessed all the three privilages together....
