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First of all I should NOT become reactive to this feeling. I should try and get to know the reason. If student is brave enough, she will tell me the reason, if I ask. However, this is unlikely. Thus, it is better to engage a colleague (preferably female) and get to the bottom of her feedback. After the feedback or real reason is known I will take appropriate steps. The likely actions are: I will change and become better, or change her (because she has probably NOT seen the world as much as I have) or counsel her with parents to understand the reality. There might be some funny reasons (such as my look, dress sense, habits, bad breath /odour, religious outlook, eating habits, etc.) if any need to be handled differently.
I WOULD ASK ABOUT THE REASONS WHY SHE IS SAYING THAT...
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Try to listen what did she find not good.