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How do you go about convincing people to move in a direction you think is the right one? What are the convincing skills that you need to master the art of influencing people?

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Question added by Dana Adel , Sales Representative , Karmalite
Date Posted: 2016/04/04
Hassnaa Es-Sabri
by Hassnaa Es-Sabri , Human Resources Manager , HORBACH - SWISS LIFE

Creating a win-win situation for both parties and start alliances.

Mark Anthony  Raña
by Mark Anthony Raña , 2012 Meno Gaia Co. Ltd

To convince people, i just have to be honest. I have to tell them what benefits they can get in choosing the right direction i think. And, I think I need to believe in it in the first place so I could be more convincing.

Communicative skill. The real sales person can be convince the customer that there is something in nothing and nothing is in something.

Fadi Nasr
by Fadi Nasr , sales , crom cell

at first, one should undertsand the personality of the person he is trying to convince, focusing on his/her eyes, movements... this gives a first general idea if the person we want to convince is self confident, scared...now the most important stage start, one have just to understand the way of thinking of the person trying to convince, the best politics is when you just make people hear what they want to hear, and then you take them to the idea you want to reach of course using some details that serve your opinion and help you to offense other opinions

ibrahim al sharafy
by ibrahim al sharafy , مدير وحدة انتاج , الشركة السعودية الفرنسية للتأمين التعاونى

 to convince the other party that you are right you must be honest with God first and then you must be cultured scientifically and learner as you should be convinced of what you say in a correct scientific way

Tamás Boér
by Tamás Boér , Trainer , self-employed

The basic way is to be a role model: if I go into the right direction with high integrity, and I also maintain a strong interest in and connectedness with those people around me, there is maximum chance they will follow me.

 

However, there is still no guarantee...

 

I would first connect with them (emotionally), would show them maximum empathy to have them fully open towards me.

 

Then I would spend as much time as needed, to really understand them: their deepest desires, dreams, beliefs and feelings (as much as time allows for it, of course). In order to do this, I would ask open questions to have them think for themselves.

 

Having understood their innermost needs and motivations I would highlight THEIR benefits of moving in the direction I think is right for them (this wouldn't be possible without understanding their true needs). I would do this gently, "coaching style". Gradually, I would raise my energy level, so that they can also feel energised through our discussion.

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by Deleted user

I would first understand the kind of people that am dealing with and afterwards, i would tell them my stand and then, we would negotiate after i have raised my point or issue to them.

KHALID RASOOL
by KHALID RASOOL , Executive , ALL INDIA CARGO PACKERS & MOVERS

Firstly you should listen to the people to whom you want to convince.

Communication skills.

 

Leadership skills.

mohamed salama
by mohamed salama , مدير صيدلية , صيدلية محمود عبد اللطيف

I trust and believe my self so I can convincing others

Gowrishankar Shanmugam
by Gowrishankar Shanmugam , Marketing and Advertising Manager , Commit

It is a Psychological question :

1) Program His Subconscious Mind

2) Believe in You and your Ideas

3) Body Language & Gesture

4) Attraction

 

Omar Darweash
by Omar Darweash , Monitoring Officer - CashForWork Compliance , UNICEF / UNOPS

Showing them the effects of taking the other directions very clearly.

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