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When would your distrust develop and what is the best way to prevent distrust from taking root into your relationships?

From the following perceptions , please choose the most relevant one to your personality :

1-Doubt 

A slight uncertainty about someone’s trustworthiness that causes you to pause just a bit.

2-Suspicion 

When unresolved doubt grows into suspicion over time and suspicion became a belief without proof. 

3-Anxiety 

 Your feeling of apprehension or uneasiness, that is often manifested physically. 

4-Fear 

When you are afraid to show vulnerability and weaknesses to other party.

5-Self-protection 

 You move into a state of self-protection, put up walls in your relationship to prevent the other person getting close to you. 

6-Withdrawal 

 You become more reserved in sharing personal information. You quit taking risks in the relationship because the safety net has been removed where loneliness or feeling dead or frozen inside is common.

7-Movement to task 

 You shut down the personal part of your relationship with the other person meanwhile stay active in other parts of your life as business life because you find it easier to “do” than to “connect to others.”

8-Unbalanced “giver” relationships 

Being the “giver” in your relationships means to avoid “receiving.” that allows you to remain safe from being vulnerable with another person so you will listen, help, and guide others, but withhold letting others help you.

9-Bad habits 

 Trust issues can lead to problematic behavioral patterns in your life. It’s easy to suppress your emotional feelings by over-working, be busy too much, or other addictive isolation behaviors.

 

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Question added by Ghada Eweda , Medical sales hospital representative , Pfizer pharmaceutical Plc.
Date Posted: 2016/04/29
Ghada Eweda
by Ghada Eweda , Medical sales hospital representative , Pfizer pharmaceutical Plc.

" You cannot truly love or trust someone else useless you Trust Yourself FIRST" , it’s equally amazing how easy communication becomes when high levels of trust are built and nurtured.

How the mistrust developed

By nature I’m a pretty trusting person. Under normal circumstances If the other person proves to be untrustworthy, then I’ll dial back the level of trust I place in him/her. In relationships where I’ve experienced distrust, I’ve found it usually isn’t caused by one significant break of trust although those are the ones that grab our immediate attention, but rather several smaller instances over time. A broken promise here, a missed deadline there, and a pattern of unreliable, unethical, incompetent, or uncaring behavior becomes the trend.

Demerits of mistrust

Distrust can spread through a relationship like a wildfire, what starts as a small ember of doubt can mushroom into a full-on blaze of distrust if we don’t take steps to address it early. what's prevents me is fear.

The heal!

The best way to prevent distrust from taking root is to proactively focus on building trust. Trust must be continually developed and nurtured throughout the course of our relationship, not just when it’s been damaged. Distrust doesn’t happen overnight. It develops progressively through stages, and if we can recognize these stages when we’re in them, we have a chance of addressing the situation before distrust takes root.

Nuridin Islam Diab
by Nuridin Islam Diab , Training Manager , Bbusinesss LLE

I choose the first one - Doubt. Thanks. 

Heavenly J John
by Heavenly J John , Head of the Dealership Operation , Automobile Company

Where there is FAITH in the relationship, there is no room for FEAR. Both are bitter enemies to each other. When FAITH started diminishing for whatsoever reasons, FEAR takes position. All the eight referred perceptions are coated on FEAR. Both are equally responsible for allowing FEAR to dilute the FIATH mutually built.

ghazi Almahadeen
by ghazi Almahadeen , Project Facilitator , Jordan River Foundation

Thanks for the invite ...................... Doubt

Yosef Abdalsalam Mohammed
by Yosef Abdalsalam Mohammed , IT Manager , Al-Alamiya for Furniture

1-Doubt

A slight uncertainty about someone’s trustworthiness that causes you to pause just a bit.

3-Anxiety 

 Your feeling of apprehension or uneasiness, that is often manifested physically. 

4-Fear 

When you are afraid to show vulnerability and weaknesses to other party.

Shahul  Hameed Mohammad
by Shahul Hameed Mohammad , Human Resources Generalist (HR Generalist) , S A CO

No doubt, doubt is the main factor which ruins relationship between friends, between husband and wife, between businessmen and others. It is a proven fact that% doubts are baseless and wrongly presumed. After all faith and trust is the most important thing to keep the relation to continue. 

Omar Saad Ibrahem Alhamadani
by Omar Saad Ibrahem Alhamadani , Snr. HR & Finance Officer , Sarri Zawetta Company

Thanks Dear

I will choose #3 : Anxiety

حسين محمد ياسين
by حسين محمد ياسين , Finance Manager , مؤسسة عبد الماجد محمد العمر للمقاولات العامة

agree with answers >>>>>>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>>>

georgei assi
by georgei assi , مدير حسابات , المجموعة السورية

3-Anxiety

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4-Fear 

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Mohammed  Ashraf
by Mohammed Ashraf , Director of International Business , Saqr Al-Khayala Group

It is a psychological question where a clinical psychologist would answer better.From business point of view, either you are cheating or lying then distrust could occur ,why because there is a doubt on honesty or reliability of or regard with suspicion. 

About Love or Trust, we can’t predict before doing deep analysis on the root cause of love or trust as love or trust have many faces or many situation, on which situation this love generated or trust originated, we should know well.

 On the other hand, if you are clapping by single hand, there would not be“ANY SOUND”of clap, but see, clap with two hands, there would a“GREAT SOUND”. So, the love or trust should be from both side, not from one side. 

From your given answer, I selected bad habits, this answer is without a study report. 

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