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As a manager, how do you prefer to deal with your employees? Being friendly or completely professional?

Some managers prefer to be friendly with employees and others prefer to be completely professional with no room for a good personal relationship. Which do you think is more appropriate?

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Question added by Ola Qtaishat , Training Officer , Bank Of Jordan
Date Posted: 2016/11/07
Jelena Krneta
by Jelena Krneta , HR Manager , Rovicom Solutions

Management style should be adjusted to type of personalities one manager has in his/her team. Knowing how your teamsters approach their work, how they communicate, what kind of relations they have with other colleagues, how motivated and satisfied they are is what helps you to define and build your management style. 

Being to friendly or too strict  as a manager will probably bring more harm than good to your business. If you position yourself as a friend to your team members, they will mostly become too relaxed around you and start slacking off their responsibilities. On the other side, "military commander" style can produce fear and demotivation after being constantly pushed and stressed out. 

Golden middle happens to be the best approach. However, keeping control and balanced relations with your team members is not as easy as it sounds. It requests excellent listening skills, great sympathy or said in one "people's skills". Next to being an expert in your field and able to transfer your knowledge and skill sets, being able to understand needs of your team and support them while creating results is what matters the most. 

Mohamed Elsaadany
by Mohamed Elsaadany , RCM | Medical Audit | Certified Clinical Coder , Private healthcare Provider

I prefer to be a fair manager while maintaining a friendly relationship with employees 

Majid Wangade
by Majid Wangade , Senior Accountant , KANTOUR LIMITED COMPANY ( Real Estate, Construction and Asset Management )

Strictly Professional

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DR MD ANWAR HOSSAIN
by DR MD ANWAR HOSSAIN , Moderator , bayt.com

I prefer friendly drill & i think strictly professional is not appropriate way.

Volodymyr Heyko
by Volodymyr Heyko , Projects Manager , EPG Management

Need to find a happy medium in the relationship with the team. This is very important since go too far to one side or the another is fraught with falling speed and quality of work, lack of motivation and unwillingness to work

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by Deleted user

No friendship, but a lot of Empathy...

Baha'a Othman
by Baha'a Othman , Learning And Development Manager , Doctors without Borders

Friendly but in a professional way.

Hasan Al-Salhi
by Hasan Al-Salhi , Account Manager , Rotormobility

Sure you have to be friendly in order to get their trust in all conditions

Jonathan Cada
by Jonathan Cada , Procurement Manager , Beepo, Inc.

I prefer to lead a team of professionals in a manner that they will not cross the boundaries of a friend and as a manager. When at work, we are more of professionals doing our tasks and accomplishing work together as a team and a friend you can count on to resolve issues or challenges. Strict compliance or lax in managing people may not lead to our desired result. We need to understand work-life balance as well so that our employees would not feel too much pressure regarding work. In management, we call this method a calculated risk.

Haregewoin Tekle
by Haregewoin Tekle , governmental organization , Aviation

A manager has to be trustworthy for his/her co-worker. He/she has to share any information that enhance the coworkers to be alert  what is going on in their department. The need of transparent decision making is so important to build trustworthy among employees. He/she must organize a meeting once in a week to transfer his/her exposure & managerial skill to their successor. He/she must be strategic thinker rather than dealing with day to day tasks. Every tasks must be done within a system so as to give consistent decision. He/she must to be accountable for any decision & responsive to the employee.

Praveen Haridas
by Praveen Haridas , HR MANAGER ( CSR AUDITS ) , BUSINESS SERVICES AND MORE

Manager should be friendly in a professional way. No room for personal sentiments.

 

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