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Why is it that peoples' self-esteem and self-worth are directly related to how many likes, friends, or comments they get on social media platforms?

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Question added by Sarah Ali , Senior Evaluation Specialist , United Nations
Date Posted: 2017/01/11
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We Are Social Primates With Technology

Our brains are hard wired (psychopaths are an exception) to respond positively to social rewards i.e. praise from a group. It helps create and maintain group cohesion, which is essential to the survival the individuals.

Normally this type of reward mechanism takes place face to face. 

However with the advent of social media, this medium is slowly being replaced. It won't be entirely replaced but yes it has taken over.

 

For more information please see:

http://edition.cnn.com////health/social-media-brain/

 

Hope this helps.

 

Houssain Fawzy elkhalafy
by Houssain Fawzy elkhalafy , Key Account Manager , Org logistics FZE

The biggest lie Lucifer had made it Is that the person depends on the assessment of himself on the opinion of the people Is the entrance to the failure of mental illness and hatred 

 

In my personal opinion and has non scientific relationship

 

Daniil Shilov
by Daniil Shilov , Marketing and Business Development Lead , Henderson International LLC

Seeing notifications of a like, message or a request releases dopamine on the brain; its a good, addictive feeling for a person therefore he wants more and his self-esteem increases that way due to an illusion that he did something worthwhile.

 

Nowadays, its not really a social world offline therefore, the virtual image is of a higher value to most and the more comments, likes and requests the better the image.

QUAID NASEEM
by QUAID NASEEM , Area Manager Project & Maintenance , Total Parco Pakistan Limited

Immaturity with humen touch

nazia khan
by nazia khan , Travel Consultant , Globespan travel management

when you have low self-esteem and usally lack a purpose, thats exactly when you allow these situations to effect your selfesteem. it  is nice to receive compliments, online or otherwise, but its not a good thing to base one’s self-esteem on them,

Bassam Ali Mohammed Al-mamari
by Bassam Ali Mohammed Al-mamari , مساعد الرصد والتقييم , برودجي سيستمز

because it shows how much you'r famous and accepted to people who they follow, like and comments on your posts and twits.

Fatma El Zahraa Khalil
by Fatma El Zahraa Khalil , Temporary Administrative /Personal Assistant , "EIA" Emirates Investment Authority - Abu Dhabi, UAE

We are living in a materialistic world

Most of the people are suffering in silence

they feel lonely

true friends are rarely

social media should be used for more communication but people become more isolated

taking into consideration that the trend now is showing off

unfortunately we are becoming more shallow

 

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