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For the1st5 years of my relationship with my boyfriend he has basically acted like he was single obviously not in front of me but when he was not with me with me he has lied and cheated I and obviously I should leave my question is this ... Taking into account all the dirty things he has done to me lying and cheating talking to girls behind my back texting girls behind my back while hes sitting in my bed just to name a few does he have any right to question anything that I do at this point in time in time when I really do nothing wrong I'm at home I'm working I don't do anything wrong
Walk away from him, because he's not going to change. You don't want a relationship where you feel bad
This is controlling behavior on his part and amounts to psychological abuse. I would seriously consider moving on. I don't think talking to him will help. I get the feeling that he is perfectly aware of his behavior and probably even enjoys this kind of manipulation. Remember, he will cheat if he has done it before. Turning a blind eye to this all the time is bad for you in the first place. So I don't see the point in wasting your time on it. You have many opportunities ahead of you and you will find a worthy partner.