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WE DO NOT TRUST SOME PEOPLE BECAUSE 1.WE DO NOT KNOW THEM 2. WE KNOW THEM VERY WELL . YOUR VIEW ON THIS IDEA?

The HOLY PROPHET (PBUH) SAID ," A TIME WILL COME WHEN EVERY BODY WILL TRY TO CHEAT OTHERS. BUT THE ONE WHO WILL TRUST ON SOME ONE , WILL BE CHEATED." DO YOU THINK THAT TIME MENTIONED IS OUR LIFE TIME ?

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Question ajoutée par zafar abbas minhas , Freelance Writer , DAILY MASHRAQ
Date de publication: 2014/07/12
Shagufta Zafar
par Shagufta Zafar , Principal , Allied School

WELL SAID SIR.... TRUELY YES ITS THE TIME RASOOL ALLAH (PBUH) MENTIONED...... BETRAYAL IS NOW AN ART ,,ISNTEAD OF BEING ASHEMED PEOPLE ARE PROUD TO BE CHEATER, THEY CALL IT SMART ONE.... ALLAH PROTECTS US FROM CHEATERS AROUND US. AMEEN

Khatim Abbas Seed
par Khatim Abbas Seed , BUSINESS CONSULTANT , Google

I agree. Trust has become a scarcity in this time. It's hard to give and hard to earn, so it seems. The problem with trust lies in its nature of being easily harmed. Damaged trust is like a broken mirror; even when glued back together, it never looks the same or give the same reflection.

 

It becomes more problematic when having no trust in people and receiving no trust in people become an epidemic commonly acceptable trait or characteristic of a culture or some people. That's when you know that NOBODY can be or should trusted and that change is very difficult and it is hard to preserve your good self among them.   

Raafat Sallam
par Raafat Sallam , Organizational Development and Training Consultant , Training Centers, Marketing Organizations.

1- If we do not know them, the problem is the uncertainty, so we can not trust100%

2- If we know them very well, the problem is the previous situations about them and the extent of credibility

amer jayyousi
par amer jayyousi , Business Development Consultant , freelance

Mr. Minhas I agree with you,knowing people very well or not knowing them very well  is certainly the reason we trust them or not trust them.

some people misjudge other's but at the end you are right.

HANNA SABA
par HANNA SABA , Team Leader (Administrative Support), including translation, editing, and writing , Deloitte

I would like to answer with some beautiful quotes:

 

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

William Shakespeare

 

You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough.

Frank Crane

 

He who does not trust enough, Will not be trusted.

Lao Tzu

 

Trust, but verify.

Ronald Reagan

Learning to trust is one of life's most difficult tasks.

Isaac Watts

 

Nasir Hussain
par Nasir Hussain , Sales And Marketing Manager , Pakistan Pharmaceutical Products Pvt. Ltd.

Good Day!!!

You are right, we dont trust people because either we dont know them (and assume them un-trustworthy)  or we know everything about them(declared them un-trustworthy). But it is not the way our religion taught us. We have to trust a mass majority of people until n unless we are sure about their traits.

 

Allah has instructed us to fulfill our promises and our commitments. In Surah Al-Mu’minun (The Believers), Allah says:

“Those who are faithfully true to their trusts and to their covenants; and those who strictly guard their prayers.  These are indeed the inheritors who shall inherit Paradise.”  (Al Qur’an,23:8-11)

 

We should remember that our beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was called “Al-Amin”: The Trustworthy Person.  He never betrayed anyone, and he never lied in his life.  Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) explained to us that the following items are part of the trusts that we have to fulfill: salat, ablution, weighing, measures, deposits, private talks, advising, just to name a few.  In one Hadith, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) informed us to fulfill Amanah even if the other party is not trustworthy. “Discharge the settlement to those who entrusted you, and don’t betray even the one who broke his promise.”  Masnad Ahmad and Sunan Abu Dawood

 

Our beloved Prophet (pbuh) has taught us that whoever does not fulfill his promises does not have faith and does not have religion. In one Hadith, he said: “There is no faith for the one who has no trust, and there is no religion for the one that does not fulfill his promises.”   Masnad Ahmad

 

Wallahu alam Bissawab (And ALLAH knows the best)

ALAMGEER HUSSAIN HASHMI
par ALAMGEER HUSSAIN HASHMI , REGIONAL SALES & OPERATIONS MANAGER , Uth Healthcare Pvt., Ltd

We know people that helps us to trust or not to trust them.It is the level of inetegrity,relaibility and honesty that one confides in a person or thing.

We surely  are living in times which our Prophet Mohammad  PBUH has forecasted.

Utilisateur supprimé
par Utilisateur supprimé

I think both conditions are applicable in today’s world – we are reluctant to trust people because we do not know them or know them too well. For the second part, I think the time is already here as told by Holy Prophet (PBUH). We are clever enough not to trust the people we do not know but we still get cheated…only by the people we trust so much.

IRPHAN GHANI
par IRPHAN GHANI , Senior Management , A

Yes you right in saying so. One cannot trust those whom you do not know if they are trust worthy. Similarly one cannot trust those whom you know very well that they are untrust worthy.

Therefore build trust first before trusting.

Mohammed Thiab
par Mohammed Thiab , Founder / Chief Consultant , MV Consulting

If you know for sure someone is NOT trustworthy, then  do NOT trust him/her ... for sure !

But to generalize the rule above and apply it across the line to everyone will be of negative impact on almost everything in our personal, social and professional lives. When you do NOT know someone, and you want to deal with him/her,  take all precautions and all possible measures to protect yourself before placing your trust in this person.  But to say stop all dealings with these people you do NOT trust because you do NOT know them is a bit too much Notice that in real life, if two parties do NOT know each other and do NOT trust each other, they can still go through a third party that is known and trustworthy to both of them Last point ,,, regarding the Hadeeth , can you please put the text in Arabic ???I would iike to see it 

hossam azzam
par hossam azzam , Fast food restaurant,s manager. , alexandria-egypt

YES....

 .......IT,S THE TIME RASOOL ALLAH (PBUH) MENTIONED

GOOD ANSWERS GIVEN BY Mss.: SHAGUFTA

 

 

 

 

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