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The points that mentioned above are very important. In addition if this is the first year for your child in the school, try to join between something your child love it and between the school. For example let one of his teacher or a counselor give him a sweet that he love in the morning. let him wait this moment. Promise him that when his teacher give you a good feedback, you will take him to his lovely place in the weekend, and be honest with your child. Let him feel how much his school is important. `
It would have been better Mr. Ayman if you mentioned the age of your child. Generally, there are essential points you should take care of them whatever the age of your child is!
1- you should enhance the friendship between you and your kid, try as much as possible to transform the relation between you and him from (Dad to Son) to be (Friend to Friend), the existence of this point would make the relationship more flexible, and it would facilitate the issue of finding the reasons of the changes that you may observe in his behavior.
2- Parents must be careful of how far their child feels comfortable in his School. Are all Teachers treated him well? Does any of his colleagues bothers him? Does the environment of his current School is suitable for him? Parents should always seek about the reasons that may cause their children dislike their schools.
3- Understanding the personality of the Child is a very important point, unfortunately lots of parents overlooked it!. Each kid has his own character, and according to his character you will determine the way of treating him, the way of dealing with him, and the way of EXPLORING him, Especially if you want to know the reason behind why he hates school.
for instance, if your child is a little bit introvert maybe he doesn't like the environment of his class which could be probably Noisy for him, or it maybe lack of a friend who has a similar quite nature, and so he may feel lonely.
4- if the age of your child is between4 and7, you should always use all energy you have to endear him in school, and in his teachers. Don't ever characterize his teacher as he/she is just responsible in punishment.
5- Regulate his sleeping time, your child must sleep at least8 hours daily, this will affect positively in accepting school. Many little kids hate their school in the reason of the obligation of waking up early.
6- change the way you do in waking your kid up. Keep calm, be tender , be soft and lovely.
7- Always prepare lovely Breakfast for him, surprise your kid by different kinds of lovely morning dishes.
8- Remember, that maybe the reason that may lead children to hate their schools is their PARENTS themselves. Your internal mood reflects inadvertently in your child. So be careful to fix all your troubles and all your wrong habits. Be Positive, Be Fresh, Be Healthy, and remember that your child is always deserves your smile :)
Child development period at early stage is actually crucial that the child will acquire attitude, personality, skills, behavior, etc. The wholeness of the child is actually molded by her/his environment ( family and neighbors around him/her ).
Struggling to bring the child to school meaning the child is not yet equept and ready to face the new environment and needs exposure to let him/ her feel the reality of the world. Acceptance of reality is a must to make her/ him feel comfortable like to expose the child to make friends that will develop interest to see his/ her friends around or in school. But the abrupt instant exposure of the child to a new environment that he/she don't know creates a resistant reaction which might develop fear , weak and reactive personality. Therefore parents play their role to explain why exposure to other environment is important that can help to give balance understanding, adjustment that will make him / her more confident to immerse in the school.
However , before the opening of the school year the child should be oriented to prepare him/her for shock and resistance to be alone. Explain some positive words that can help to develop interest and rewarding performance and so on opening of the school year the child is ready to mingle in his/ her new school.
If its about any particular school, - change the school! Find the reason why your child doesn't have motivation and desire?! Is it boring there, or he(she) has problem with his teacher or classmates?
Talk with your kido, show your child that you support and understand him. and you want to help him in any situation. Does your kid trust you and know you would understand him or he expect to be punished ? Go to school and talk with a teacher or stay during certain lesson to see how is all the process of education is organized. there. Then make your decision.
Some positions may be working detonator for many of the disorders that may be lurking at the child, and the school entry of the most important of these positions.
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Since the formation of the fetus should be a safe family environment in order to be a psychological safe
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Normal upbringing of the child without excessive care or excessive deprivation
A sense of responsibility when parents and to give it to the child, and therefore:
The concept of a positive, and together relationship (family, peers, school, community).
