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How would you handle rude or disrespectful behavior from other staff?

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Question ajoutée par Muhammad Moeen Bhatti , Cluster Incharge , Premier DLC - A project of Beaconhouse Group
Date de publication: 2015/08/03

Patience is always a virtue... Don't go with their level of being rude and disrespectful coz if u do... U just show them u are also one of them... Just keep in ur mind that being nice is advantage...

د Waleed
par د Waleed , Management - Leadership-Business Administration-HR&Training-Customer Service/Retention -Call Center , Multi Companies Categories: Auditing -Trade -Customer service -HR-IT&Internet -Training&Consultation

First. With Patient.

Second. If such behavior continues, the we should talk and advise.

Third. If it continues, the issue should be discussed with the manager.

Anna Izabela Nagnajewicz
par Anna Izabela Nagnajewicz , Customer Success Manager , Micro Focus

How  would  you  handle  rude  or  disrespectful  behavior?

Well.. it is simple, I would not!

Primo: because it is unprofessional!

Secondo: because it is unacceptable! 

 

There is something called manners, social responsibility, ethics of work and so on (…)

We are not talking about bad mood or humor.. It is normal to have a bad day. We all have it time to time!

However rude or disrespectful behavior is aggressive  - So You do not have to deal neither with rudeness nor disrespect!  

 

Thank You very much - This is a task for Your Superior.

Mohammed Asim Nehal
par Mohammed Asim Nehal , M Asim Nehal & Co , Chartered Accountants

I would give them opportunity to speak for such behavior, let them say what forces them to behave erratically. There is no smoke without fire, unless you touch upon the bases the problem will never get resolved. If they fail to explain me the reason or I am unable to understand then I will distance from them and leave them with their behavior . Just ignore them ...........

Mehboob Ali Laghari
par Mehboob Ali Laghari , Social Mobilization Team Incharge , TRDP-European Union

I think i would have words with him/her in polite manner prior to approaching any higher authority

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par Utilisateur supprimé

Rude and unprofessional behavior may steam from difference in home language where requests are lost in translation.  The direct translation from their home language to English might just come across too direct.

 

A response of "sorry are you talking to me?" turn around and see if someone is behind you, may be enough to make the other person think, wait, I may have offended.

 

Then if they say 'yes, I was talking to you"

Query again, "Really, let me clarify, you said, bring me that xyz right, (repeat the offensive dialogue) so you told me, ordered me, without any please, or common practice respect, well I have a problem with that"  So unless you address me correctly, accept I will ignore you, does that clarify the situation correctly, Mr Joe Soap"   

 

Of course this is only to be addressed to someone on equal rank or even a direct supervisor.  No matter who it is, if we allow someone to disrespect us, they will continue to do so, therefore if you have a first unpleasant encounter for no reason whatsoever, then set that arrogance right as soon as possible. 

 

If you lose the job, is it worse than losing respect for self?  I think not, that job was never worth having then.

 

Walk away and hold your head high, show you are worthy and should be treated as such.

Emad Mohammed said abdalla
par Emad Mohammed said abdalla , ERP & IT Software, operation general manager . , AL DOHA Company

1) Don’t lose your cool 2) Don’t take it personally 3) Confront if necessary. Else, refrain from it 4) Don’t expect the rude behavior to change

 

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par Utilisateur supprimé

Self control and tolerance is needed to deal a rude colleague. Using my manners and dealing with him in a kind manner will help him relax and calm his rudeness. 

Michael Finner
par Michael Finner , BPM Technical Writer , Belcan

Mention it to the offender, and keep cool about it.  Don't take it personally, at all.  Try to sort it out at the lowest level, you and the offender.

Majid Wangade
par Majid Wangade , Senior Accountant , KANTOUR LIMITED COMPANY ( Real Estate, Construction and Asset Management )

Just smile lovingly seeing into the eyes of rude & disrespectful staff member. Let the rude people feel that you don't care about their rude behavior & you still have faith in them.

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