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How would you deal with an irritating colleague, who constantly keeps disturbing you with silly things and does a spying act as well ?

As a manager how would you deal with such situation when one employee approach you with above problem, please note you can't afford to loose either of them.

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Question ajoutée par Mohammed Asim Nehal , M Asim Nehal & Co , Chartered Accountants
Date de publication: 2015/08/04
Naveen Chandani
par Naveen Chandani , Front Office Manager , Team Red Dot Media

This kind of attitude shows that this colleague is jealous with you and trying to provoke you by passing sarcasm comments and doing silly things. Try to avoid his attitude and do not reply him in the same way as he does. Instead, as a manager you can conduct a meeting in which you can raise points whether your employees are happy with your management and also discuss the type of environment and attitude you are expecting from them. Do not point him and argue with him straight away, otherwise you will lose the support of another colleagues. Your patience will support you throughout. Bad attitude impose a bad nature and soon other colleagues will realize that you are kind to him but he is trying to provoke you all the time, so try to handle things intelligently and smartly by showing patience and act as a good manager as I hope you will be Good Luck..!!

Sai Dharani Durvasula
par Sai Dharani Durvasula , Senior Hr Executive , SV Placement Pvt Ltd

Its true that such people are irritating and disturbing to anyone. But as a manager, it is our responsibility to take care of the situation in a clever way. In such case, the manager should ask tat employee to buddy another employee and monitor what that employee is doing in various situations at work.

We can also allocate him/her with more responsibilities so that he/she takes an ownership of work and is compelled to use his/her mind for problem solving instead of asking others.

Gulab Khan Yousafzai
par Gulab Khan Yousafzai , Administration Officer , Public Sector Org (MES Pakistan)

Use counter strategy:-

1)  Get Friendly to know his / her psyche and act accordingly

2)  Realize him/her that whatever he/she is doing is nonproductive and doesn't bear anything on you.

3)  If positive reinforcement doesn't work, report the matter to higher authorities as no matter how important the colleague is, he is not above the code of conduct of the org.

4)  Remember no body is indispensable. every body has got his/her replacement. 

If you are an important employee to the org and the act of someone else effect your performance than that needs to be eliminated and its the responsibility of the org. Org doesn't want to retain unproductive employees.

Anurag Singh
par Anurag Singh , Seniour Hr Executive , Hayakawa Electronics India Pvt. Ltd.

Dear Mr. Mohammed

They keep disturbing you because they want that you get disturbed , so solving this just failed them by not disturb stay cool and calm and as time passed they stop disturb you.

Remember in this world only you can decide who can disturb you and when, cheers!!

Warm Regards

 

Anurag 

Emad Mohammed said abdalla
par Emad Mohammed said abdalla , ERP & IT Software, operation general manager . , AL DOHA Company

i fully agree with the answer been added by  Naveen Chandani ...............Thanks

Sanjeev Kumar
par Sanjeev Kumar , Manager , Master Trust Limited

Ms Naveen Chandani have very well replied the question.The very best strategy is to stay calm in such situations & don’t do something that you regret later. Deny them the satisfaction of getting you riled. When you stay calm, you really annoy those who want to annoy you. By staying calm you will enjoy greater peace of mind and be more free to act decisively and constructively. Aristotle said – "it’s not about getting angry, it’s about getting angry in the right way. And in most situations, keeping your cool is better for you, and produces better results".

Mohammed Sadiq Hafeez Khan
par Mohammed Sadiq Hafeez Khan , Team Leader - Human Resources , First Credit Service (USA based ITES)

People often go through such situations at work place. Be sensitive to the fact that people aren't perfect. No one is immune to habits that can be annoying to others however if that particular case is effecting your daily performance than try to find a solution..

Initially speak up & tell the special one that  his /her presence / act is effecting your performance which isn't good for business / department.

Be calm & diplomatic - Discuss the same with your other team members and identify if they are suffering too.

Don't get stressed or hyper, take a deep breath or walk away for a short break and convince yourself that every employee  in his / her career meets such character and by handling such colleagues one becomes a good leader. Stay positive !

If the situations gets worsen; Escalate it your HR buddy / Manager  which is the last option.

 

Don't allow anyone to steal your joy at work or take up valuable space in your day !

 

Happy Working,

Sadiq Khan

 

 

Vinod Jetley
par Vinod Jetley , Assistant General Manager , State Bank of India

Look Inward

Appreciate Diversity

Look for the Positive

Separate Yourself

Give Some Slack

Gayasuddin Mohammed
par Gayasuddin Mohammed , Advocate , Practicing Law before High Court at Hyderabad

I have the same view of Ms. Naveen Chandani for dealing such a situation. Thanks.

Mohsin Patel
par Mohsin Patel , Accounting Analyst , Water G.

Either talk to your management or HR, or the individual that you dislike this conduct.

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