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As these are all the negative situations in life, we have to look at it positively to become a better person. I mean, if we look at :-
Failure positively - We will find out our weaknesses and the areas we need to improve.
Opposition positively - We will find out how strong we are and determine how mature we are.
Refusal positively - We will find out what the shortcomings of our convincing ability are and work out ways to improve ourselves on this point.
Criticism positively - As long as it is constructive and encouraging, we can re-work the areas that needs improvement and come out strong ultimately.
Failure is the key to success, a man should try to mediate himelf between the thin line of failure and success.
calmly question himself Think positively try to avoid confrontation .
Failure: --> A Failure is a step on your way to success.
Try to figure out, why the failure happend and list at least5 reasons make you failed. this will not be a forgetable list.
Opposition: --> The other meaning of opposition is that you make a change which has not a buy in of your peers / supportdinate / superior. involve them in the change you want to make. ask them to shape the change with you. ask for their support to build a success for themself and for you.
Refusal :--> Be patient and try another ways. and some sommunication skills + your network of supporter at your department / company.
Criticism: --> As long as it is a positive criticism and in decent way, it is welcome to be criticized. it is a golden opportunity to be evaluated / enhance your skills and get further step but maybe in a hard way.
