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İf you have got a problem and your friend say to you . Take it easy and forget it. Do you agree with this?

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Date de publication: 2014/06/09
SMARAGDI FILIPPAKOPOULOU
par SMARAGDI FILIPPAKOPOULOU , Secretary , Public sector (temporary job)

It depends on the problem, if it's a minor one then it's ok. But if it's a big problem concerning the job or family or relationship then as a friend should discuss the problem with you and then suggest some solution because he/she already knows your situation in life. So he/she can make a few suggestions. The quote "don't worry, be happy" it's fine to hear and very optimistic but when you face a difficult situation then you'd like to hear something else from your friend. A person who isn't inside  the problem, maybe can see clearer and can say somehting meaningful to you. So I would expect from a close friend a more serious confrontation of the specific problem.

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par Utilisateur supprimé

We live today in a time of complex problems, and we feel that the time defeat us,  the gap between us and the time became too large, so we need a friend to comfort each other, and assist each other in order to solve our problems

Jamal al areifi
par Jamal al areifi , Head of Protocol and Corporate Events I , Aluminium Bahrain

i have to find a solution

Ibrahim Elsayed Soliman Ahmed
par Ibrahim Elsayed Soliman Ahmed , مشرف قطاع الغرف , تفاصيل للوحدات الفندقية

No, I dont agree . i have to know befor he resolve this problem, i think he doesnt want for me to discuss him  

shujat mohammad
par shujat mohammad , SR. Executive International marketing , Centre for sight

no one will agree on this as a friend in need is a friend indeed , its a very casual response where the other friend really dont care much about the person who is having a problem or the person who is having the problem is having the problem very frequently and the friend know that there is no solution to it , so its better to ask him or her to let it go ....

HANNA SABA
par HANNA SABA , Team Leader (Administrative Support), including translation, editing, and writing , Deloitte

It is nice to have a  friend who tries to comfort you with soothing words such as "take it easy." However, minimization -i.e. belittling a problem- is a cognitive distortion, and so is exaggeration. A problem should be put in its right perspective. This does not mean that you shouldn't rationalize your emotions concerning the problem and try to alleviate the stress associated with solving it. Having self-control, proper self-mangement, and the right approach and method to solving the problem is what counts most. A truly caring friend would do more than just the lip service of "take it easy", and would do his best to hep you solve your problem.

Rahmat Ullah Khan
par Rahmat Ullah Khan , Administrative Asst , Trojan Holding

If he is my friend.....  yes I agree with this, because I trust on him.

Ibrahim Al - Shabory
par Ibrahim Al - Shabory , Med. Rep. , Asiu Trade

He's right, because I should be relax to get my mind oppurtunity to think well and find a solution and not any solution.

It's needed a good solution in order to solve perfect. Let's be honest, if it's needed to be relax doesn't mean the one let the problem becomes bigger or laugh without caring .... no no 

the purpose from taking it easy is to to be in a good mood provides you to think well.

So I agree with him  100 % 

Hamza M Babiker
par Hamza M Babiker , Senior Translator, editor, content writer and media specialist , Freelancer

I will take it easy only if I understand that my friend didn't make that small problem intentionally.

Alaa Alfawzan
par Alaa Alfawzan , طالبة ترجمة , خبراء التربية

No I don't agree. If she is really my friend , she will try to find a solution for my problem and help me insteed of telling me to forget it. finally i will forget her actually!

asif khan
par asif khan , Installation and maintenance head , International technical support

it depends on the kind of problem i am having, i might try to calm down and find a solution for it or i might burst out on hearing the same thing rather a solution for my problem.

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